Archive for the ‘All about me’ Category

where is the line between self-empowerment and self-pity? between saying i’m fed up and gonna do something about it and realizing that even afterward you’re not significantly closer to happiness. i can’t believe i’ve reached a stage in my life where my happiness appears to totally depend on other people, but it’s true. (i guess […]

if you see this post, it’s time to change your bookmarks to, or tell who ever’s link you followed to do the same. no matter what blogging platform i use, i promise that address will always direct you to the most current one.



You see it on talk shows or even in the movies all the time. Some woman is in some horrid abusive relationship and she does nothing about it. every time the dude beats her down or insults her or locks her in the basement she just cries. then when the dude is slightly more relaxed […]

et voila


if everything looks different and this site took you by surprise, then you got here because now is on tumblr instead of on wordpress. if everything looks the same to you, it’s because you’re using to read my shit, which is a bad idea considering how often i change my mind. i always […]

hello, friends. you may see this page / feed change to THIS in the near future. it’s called a tumblog and i really like the way it works. it’s a short format blog thingy that has special formatting for different things like text, links, im snippets, pictures and videos. my use of twitter has taught […]

bad advice


“there comes a time in every young man’s life when all the parties and the one night stands, they’re not enough.” – i’m pretty sure quoting the pet shop boys has got to be one of the gayest thing i’ve ever done in a blog post. but what they say there, well it’s become true. […]

it’s taken a long time. years of working out with a concerted effort to really change that started about a year ago, but i finally feel good about what i see when i look in the mirror. honestly i know the image was there long before this month, but this is the month when i […]